Sexonomics: How Sex and Dating Work

Anonymous asked: In Seoul next week. Any recommendations as to where to pick up women? ms10151977 gmail

Itaewon or Hongdae! If you go to Itaewon hit Wolfhounds, Hollywood, and go behind the Hamilton Hotel. If you go to Hongdae go to Gogo’s, Gogo’s 2, Mansion, and Mama Gorilla’s 

Good luck hunting!

Anonymous asked: Have you ever filmed yourself having sex with someone? Have you ever thought about a hidden camera with your pickups?

To my knowledge I have never been filmed and I have never filmed it. I wouldn’t want any documentation about my sex antics. Whatever happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom and my blog. :)

“Tonight Sinchon, tomorrow Gangnam, the day after tomorrow Hongdae, I might do Itaewon on Sunday Funday”
— Sophie

Anonymous asked: Hi. Do you think that if you move back to the US that you keep on dating Koreans?

Yes! I would date other Asian ethnicities as well not just Koreans. I am very excited to be able to speak the same language. :)

No Phone

Since my phone was stolen, I have not had any contacts with my old booty calls. I have no other way of contacting them. Which has been great! I am leaving booty calls behind me.  Hip-Hip-Hooray!

I think it is funny when situations like these occur, the Swedish guy asked for my phone number and I told him that my phone had been stolen. He looked at me in disbelief, like I was using this excuse because I did not want him to contact me.  I thought that was pretty funny.

I have noticed that not having a phone has been good for me. Also,  I realized how addicted my friends are to their phones. They are always texting, checking their facebook, and some their tumblrs.  Did I look like that before? Sometimes I have to impose the “If you check your phone while we are eating, then you pay “ rule.

It can be annoying in my opinion.  Just like how since I have gotten my computer back, I do not read as much.  Really Sophie? I should be reading right now instead of writing or going through tumblr.

I went through 400 pages, in 3 days,  of Game of Thrones when I did not have a computer or phone. I still have not finished it because I had my computer fixed.  All I am saying is that technology has personally affected me in good and bad ways.

With Phone & Computer

  1.   Easy booty call access
  2. World of information at my fingertips
  3.   Lack of communication with friends because I’d rather be on the net or chating
  4.    Lack of interest in my hobbies because I’d reather be on the net or chatting
  5.   Easy to communicate World wide
  6.   Kills time when bored (Game)

Without a phone or Computer

  1.  Not enslaved to penis
  2.  More time for hobbies
  3.  More communication with friends
  4.  Become more creative because you have time to use your imagination

Time to put this netbook down and read a book.

Sophie

Anonymous asked: What type of underwear do you wear when you're out at night. Have you ever been out without panties?

The funny thing is that I love going camando! There are plenty of times I go out without wearing any underwear. This implies to other things to ex: shopping, dining out, teaching (Not in dresses), hanging out with friends.

When I do decide to wear underwear, I wear bikini style leopard and other funky colors. 

But love that open feeling. :)

Anonymous asked: Have you ever been scared about stds

Of course. Anyone who starts having sex and has had unprotected or even protected sex will worry about STDs. I just have to make sure I always get tested and I need to be smart about using condoms. :)

The older I am getting the more I start caring about what is happening to me. 

In my early 20’s I didn’t care so much and I should have but luckily I have not had an STD. I do not want to ever have to go through it. I have seen friends go through it and it is very scary. :( 

Safe sex is the key.

Changes

I changed my hair color. I have updated my avatar so you can see exactly what kind of color. So far my friends love my new hair color. Guys keep telling me that they really like it and that I look beautiful. I even had a friend of mine confess that he has been wanting to be with me this whole time that we have known each other but he doesn’t want to be another sex story on my blog. It has been a weird weekend.

I had a great going away party in Hongdae and even got to make out with another European. A guy from Sweden. Had guys there that I have fucked or hooked up with in the past. It was not awkard at all. I’m a fun girl and I like to have good times.  They all love me for being myself and I wouldn’t change that for the world.  I am going to be really sad when I leave the ROK!

Cheesesteaks on a Wednesday

So Siren, Walks of Shame and myself decided to go to Itaewon to eat some delicious cheesesteaks at Hollywood Grill. We were chatting and drinking, just having a great time. 

We were feeling pretty good so we decided to head to another bar, old Roofers (Name has changed- Sin Bin). I asked what that room was doing in the back and they told me “It’s where you get spanked.”

So I told them I wanted to get spanked. When the guy was coming with the paddle a girl grabbed it from him and then the girl ended up spanking me. A few drinks later I am talking to other people and starting to feel sick. Walks of Shame and Siren try to feed me. 

Walks of Shame disappears like always. Siren and I get in a cab. HOWEVER, I decided to roll down the window so I can throw up right outside his window. The Taxi driver pulls over and starts yelling. I told him we would pay him extra. 

Once at my home, Siren and the taxi driver started arguing because he was trying  to get more money out of us. I just wanted to give him the extra 20,000 won because I was feeling sick again. Some Korean guy came in to help us and talked to the taxi driver. The taxi driver left angrily. I tried to hook up with the Korean guy but really just making a fool of myself cause I was really drunk and sick (puke breath).

After everything was done, we went upstairs and I hugged the toilet.

Thanks Siren and Walks of Shame for taking care of my drunk ass. This is why I don’t go to Itaewon on weekdays.

Favorite Easy Sexual Positions

Saucy Spoons 

Lie on your sides with him behind you and push your butt back so he can enter you. Let his hands know what you like (Clitoris stimulation or breasts).

Doggy Style


Get on all fours and have him thrust his cock into you.

Figure Eight

Lie face up with pillows propping your butt. Keep your knees half bent, legs spread wide, and your arms over your head or holding on to his sides. He must make a figure eight motion when fucking you slowly. You will be able to feel every inch.

These are some of my favorite easy sexual positions. Give ‘em a go!

More to come.